My equestrian journey began amidst family turmoil, where the gentle presence of animals brought a deep, quiet solace. But it wasn’t until I rescued Play-Boy, a retired Thoroughbred racehorse, that my love for horses transformed into something extraordinary.
At 15, Play-Boy faced the fate common to many retired racehorses. Known among local judges for his unmatched speed and spirit, his future looked bleak. But when we met, an immediate, wordless recognition passed between us — and I knew I had to save him.
The transition from racetrack to peaceful pasture wasn’t easy, but it was transformative. His powerful presence soon lit up the show ring. Though bred for racing, Play-Boy discovered his true calling in cross-country — leaping fences with grace and galloping as if the earth itself welcomed him. His tireless energy and vibrant heart quickly won over the local equestrian community.
In time, our bond deepened. Beneath his bold exterior was a gentle soul, and together we built a relationship rooted in trust, patience, and mutual respect — a testament to what can unfold when we connect through presence rather than pressure.
The legacy of our bond echoes the spirit of my grandfather, who revered racehorses — especially Secretariat. I still remember the earth trembling beneath Secretariat’s hooves at Saratoga Springs, stirring something deep within me. That moment, like Play-Boy, left a lasting imprint on my soul.
Today, as a certified Somatic Breathwork Facilitator and Neuroscience-Guided Meditation Coach, I help equestrians cultivate that same sacred connection — one built through regulation, presence, and invitation. This work honors Play-Boy’s legacy and the truth that horses are not here just to be ridden — but to teach us presence, power, and grace.